A Confession: My Life as a Bangalore Escort

A Confession: My Life as a Bangalore Escort

Five Things People Often Get Wrong

I never thought I would say this openly. But at some point, being honest feels necessary. This is my truth, unfiltered, sometimes uncomfortable, and very different from the assumptions people often make about women like me.

I am one of the Bangalore escorts. Most of what people think they know about my work is simply not true.

“You Must Have Had No Other Choice”

This is the first thing people usually assume. They think I ended up here because I failed at something else, or because I couldn’t get a respectable job or build a normal life.

In reality, I had choices. I still do.

I am educated, well-spoken, and capable. I have gone to interviews, worked in regular jobs, and tried the paths society calls acceptable. But I chose escorting because it gave me something those jobs never did: control over my time, my income, and my independence.

“So It’s All About Sex, Right?”

I did not fall into this work by accident. I chose it on purpose, knowing exactly what I was getting. It’s All About Sex, Right?”

This idea always makes me stop and think.

Yes, intimacy can be part of my work, but it is rarely the whole story and often not the main part. What surprises most people is that many clients do not come for sex at all.

They come for conversation, for warmth, and for someone to be present with them.

I have shared dinners in quiet restaurants, listened to stories people never tell anyone else, and sat with men who just did not want to feel alone for a few hours. Often, the most intimate thing I give is my full attention, real, undistracted attention.

If this job were only about sex, it would not last. What people really value is connection. You Must Work Miserable, Endless Hours”

I used to believe this myth too, until I learned the truth.

The truth is, I choose when I work. Some weeks are busy, while others I keep deliberately empty. I decide whether to work during the day, in the evening, or take time off.

This job takes as much emotional energy as it does time. That is why knowing when to take a break is important. Real freedom is not about always being available, but about having choices.

“There’s No Real Money in escorting

I will not pretend that money does not matter. It does. What people do not see is what the income really means. It shows responsibility, discretion, emotional work, and consistency. I often make in a few hours what other jobs pay in days or even weeks.

There is no ladder here and no glass ceiling. What I earn depends on how I manage myself, my boundaries, and my work ethic. For the first time, effort and reward align directly.

Having that kind of financial independence changes how you see yourself.

“Your Clients Must Be Desperate or Unattractive”

This myth always makes me smile.

My clients include professionals, entrepreneurs, travellers, newly single men, married men, shy men, and confident men. Some are polished, some are awkward, and many are surprising.

They do not come to me because they cannot find women. They come because they want things to be clear, no games, no emotional confusion, no pretending.

Honestly, respectful clients are much more common than most people think.

What This Life Has Taught Me

This work is not easy, and it is not for everyone. But it is not shameful, broken, or empty.

Working as a Bangalore escort has taught me about boundaries, self-awareness, and confidence. More importantly, it has shown me how lonely people can be and how much simple kindness matters.

I do not expect everyone to understand why I made this choice.
I only ask that you stop assuming I made this choice without thinking it through.

This is my confession in my Life as a Bangalore Escort.
And this is my life.